Updated: Sep 29
Penis of blood VS penis of flesh: the point on the size of the penis
30% of men think their penis is small. And besides, this impression can even go as far as a complex of small size, with in some men, real psychological repercussions.
In reality, explains Gilbert Bou Jaoudé, “ most men who consult because they find their penis too small actually have a penis of normal size. Only, they have an erroneous view of the average size of the penis . ”
In fact, we learn later that in these men, who consult for a small penis complex, the discomfort comes mainly from the size of the penis at rest; not the size of the erect p`enis .
So how do you explain this difference in flaccid and erect size? Why do some men find their penis normal when erect, but too small when flaccid? Isn't the gain in erect penis size proportional to flaccid penis size?
Navigating the maze of misconceptions about penis size can be a daunting task, but it's crucial for both self-esteem and sexual wellness. One often debated topic is the distinction between a 'penis of blood' and a 'penis of flesh.' What does this mean, and how does it relate to size? In this blog, we will delve into the anatomy, the science, and the cultural perceptions surrounding these terms. Our aim is to offer a nuanced perspective that goes beyond the simplistic 'size matters' mantra. We'll explore how these different types of penises function, and what really counts when it comes to size and sexual satisfaction. Prepare to have some myths busted and facts laid bare!
What does flaccid penis size depend on?
The flaccid penis size does not really depend on the actual size of the penis. In fact, it depends on several factors, and in particular on 2 factors. Microscopic muscles are found between the skin of the penis and the penis, which are called subcutaneous smooth muscle fibers (under the skin). These muscle fibers have the ability to contract, and when this happens, naturally, the penis is pushed inside the body. It thus decreases in size and circumference. Another thing to know: the blood circulation inside the penis is so important that it is made up of 90% blood. If the arteries and muscles that surround the arteries in the penis contract, for various reasons, the blood inside the penis empties; there too, the volume of the penis decreases and retracts into the body. So, in reality, flaccid penis size depends primarily on things that are not directly related to true penis size.
Situations where the penis is “pushed” inside the body.
There are mainly 2 situations where the penis can be forced to retract inside the body, Gilbert Bou Jaoudé teaches us. “ The first situation where the penis can be forced to retract is any situation of stress or fear. For example, fear or a small complex can lead to stress. However, under the effect of stress, the muscles which surround the arteries of the penis contract, which causes the retraction of the penis. ” In this example, it is mainly the fear of having a small penis , which is at the origin of the small flaccid penis size. The other situation is well known to men, it is cold. Under the effect of the cold, all the muscles of the body contract, regardless of the skin area. So the cold also causes the muscles around the arteries of the penis to contract, and therefore, the retraction of the penis at rest.
Blood penis VS flesh penis.
There are two types of penis, depending on the ratio between its flaccid size and its erect size: the blood penis (grower, "increase" or grow" in English) and the flesh penis ("shower", "the one which shows, which is displayed”).
The Blood Penis
Typically, a blood penis is a penis that is quite small when flaccid. On the other hand, it is able to double in size (or even more) and in circumference when it is erect! So, as we saw earlier, flaccid penis size can sometimes be misleading. Stress and temperature can influence penis size; but a penis of blood, for example, shows a great elastic capacity, which explains the large difference in size between its state at rest and its state in erection. In fact, this type of penis has more cavities to receive blood flow than the flesh penis. However, nothing predicts in advance if we are in front of a penis of blood or flesh!
The penis of flesh
At first glance, this type of penis is considered to be of adequate flaccid size. But unlike the blood penis, its size hardly moves when erect: what changes is mainly the rigidity. It has fewer cavities than the blood penis and can therefore contain less blood; which explains why its size changes little at rest.
Can you guess penis size?
There is only one physical criterion that is correlated to the size of the penis at flaccid and erect: it is the abdomen. This is because the larger the abdomen, the more likely the penis will look small, simply because it 's buried in abdominal fat . We sometimes speak of buried penis syndrome , in overweight people, but it can also be a congenital malformation that affects the child at birth. In children, treatment will be surgical. In adult men, it is enough to lose a little weight for the size of the penis to return to its normal size. Read also: red spot on the glans , what to do?
Flesh penis VS blood penis: what to remember
As you have understood, the size of the penis at rest depends on several factors indirectly related to the true size of the penis: stress, fear, anxiety, temperature changes... The penis undergoes both its external environment, but also factors psychological. Also, many men think flaccid penis size reflects erect penis size; that is, the size of the erect penis would be proportional to the size of the flaccid penis. And that too is not necessarily true! Because as we have seen, it rather depends on the number of cavities present in the penis that can receive the blood flow. Thus, a penis of blood is able to gain more size than a penis of flesh which was nevertheless larger at rest. Whether they have a blood penis or a flesh penis, all men can suffer from erectile dysfunction . The type of penis is not a predisposing factor, don't worry. If you suffer from an erection problem, do not hesitate to consult a doctor who can set up an appropriate therapy and perhaps recommend that you buy viagra or buy Cialis , on prescription in pharmacies, depending on your situation. Similarly, premature ejaculation is not more common in one type of penis than in the other. If you suffer from it, do not buy a medicine for early without prescription , but rather go to consult a doctor who can accompany you effectively and safely towards recovery. Finally, if you are concerned about the size of the penis, do not hesitate to reassure yourself and talk to a sex therapist: most of the time, men have a completely normal penis!